I know the second date is important, too. My older brother gave me a list of 150 questions to ask on a date. I trust his judgment, so I always use the list. Thanks to these questions https://soulmatcher.app/blog/sexy-questions-to-ask-your-crush/ ; all of my dates have gone very well! Personally, I like the question, "What was the last thing you searched for on Google?" You can either laugh at yours both because she was looking for date recommendations, too, or you can learn about her hobbies or plans for the future. Where are you going on your date?